So many times, I read about the latest research findings in some newspaper or magazine, and say to myself, did we really need to do a study to know that? Any regular person on the street could have told you the answer to that question. On the other hand, when you read about research that […]
Do I Have to Give Up Me To Be Loved By You?
One of our favorite books for couples has been on the shelves of The Family Therapy Institute of Santa Barbara for almost twenty years and is still selling. Co-authored by Drs. Jordan and Margaret Paul, Do I Have To Give Up Me To Be Loved By You? is now in its second edition and can […]
Keeping Love Alive
“We are told that people stay in love because of chemistry, or because they remain intrigued with each other, because of many kindnesses, because of luck. But part of it has got to be forgiveness and gratefulness.” -Ellen Goodman Far too often in my role as a psychotherapist, I have sat with couples in distress […]
